He Speaketh
GARY’s lectures and seminars balance energy, insight, humor, and slices of the “Cowboy Way” . His knowledgeable talks are centered around his research on generational cultures with stories from his partnership fathering with his son-in-law, the therapist, his global travels and high level adventures —Navy fighter pilot, missionary, rancher, business entrepreneur, teacher.

 

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BOOKS:
IN OUR SADDLE BAG, ON OUR SHELVES, IN OUR PILE, ON OUR NIGHT STAND

This is an important section, of course.  But there are soooo many books.  We'd like your help in the Grand Sort.  Join up, give us post or just send one of us an email of a really critically useful book.  Same with teaching DVD's and CD's.

[Friends note:  We'll launch without this section complete.  Always lots and lots of good books.  We try to focus on the fathering-changers, especially the ones that have affected us and which we have built in to our own book]

Wild at Heart, John Eldredge [Also CD and DVD teaching set]  Transformational for any man needing to saddle up for that journey to a full heart as a man that the culture and our "Christian" habits keep just out of reach. http://www.ransomedheart.com/c-3-books.aspx

Sacred Romance, Curtis and Eldredge [Also CD]  Absolutely changed Gary's life as it did his son, months before Darick discovered terminal cancer.  Your life, like his and Gary's, will never be the same. http://www.ransomedheart.com/c-3-books.aspx

Fathered by God (Also Way of the Wild Heart), [Also CD]  John Eldredge takes us with delicious language and riveting (AND biblical) logic through the stages of a man's life with the goal of sharpening the Walk With God with each evolution.  Perfect for father and older son to read--and cry and pray--together. http://www.ransomedheart.com/c-3-books.aspx

Love and War, John and Staci Eldredge. [CD and DVD]  Just out, Feb 10.  Other than "perfect," this book is indescribable for couples before marraige, during it, and before it is no more.  The couples group study DVD guide is full of laughs and tears, some of sorrow, mostly of joy.  Fathering.  Yeah, you gotta get this part right, first. http://www.ransomedheart.com/c-3-books.aspx

Strategic Fathering Jay Cookingham.  Jay's a comrade from the www.Ransomedheart.net with his own book on partnering with God to make the most out of life's greatest challenge, fathering.  Visit his site at http://www.strategicfathering.com/

Making of a Modern Day Knight,

He Loves Me, Wayne Jacobsen.  Learning to live in the Father's affection is a trail guide to fathering your own.

Girls and Dads, Dr. Meg Meeker.  Knocks it out of the park.  Simple, plain-spoken from an MD who struggles with and for teens.  Being a good girl dad ain't that complicate...shore is hard.  She helps.  While you're at it, pick up her Let Boys Be Boys.  It's her newest and has the same common sense stuff

Matt’s daughter book.Margin

The Me Generation Jean Twenge. A prof and shrink writes a fascinating assessment of how your Millennial Generation children (and grands) are more confident, assertive and entitled and more miserable than ever.  It's one of the many academic generational books we use in our research; this one is for mom and pop.